Have you ever found yourself wondering if you’re somehow behind in life—like things didn’t turn out the way you expected or on the timeline you hoped for? Maybe you’re walking through a season of waiting, grief, or uncertainty and asking, Where is God in this?
In this week’s episode of The Love Offering Podcast, I sat down with author and poet Tanner Olson to talk about his book Getting Through What You are Going Through and what it looks like to walk through seasons of uncertainty, waiting, and even grief while still holding onto hope.
In this honest and hope-filled conversation, Tanner talks about what it really looks like to walk through hard seasons with faith. Through his personal story of infertility, waiting, and ultimately adoption, Tanner shares how God is present—not just at the end of our stories, but in the middle of them too.
This episode is a gentle reminder that you are not behind, your story is not off track, and even now, God is still at work.
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
- Why feeling “behind” is more common—and less true—than you think
- How to find hope in seasons of waiting, grief, and uncertainty
- The power of slowing down and noticing God in everyday moments
- Why you shouldn’t just get through hard seasons—but go through them
- How trusting God’s timing deepens your faith
Episode Highlights & Timestamps
[00:00] – Welcome + Introduction to Tanner Olson
Rachael introduces Tanner and his heart for helping people slow down, reflect, and recognize God’s presence in everyday life.
[06:30] – The Story Behind the Book
Tanner shares his personal journey through infertility, grief, and the waiting season that led to adoption.
[09:30] – What to Say When Life Feels Off Track
A powerful, compassionate response to those who feel like life isn’t going as planned.
[11:40] – Finding Hope in Everyday Moments
Why small, ordinary moments—like a cup of coffee or watching the sunset—can restore our perspective and renew our hope.
[16:10] – Trusting God Without Having All the Answers
Letting go of control and learning to walk by faith, even when the future feels uncertain.
[18:50] – Don’t Just Get Through It—Go Through It
A meaningful shift in perspective that changes how we approach hard seasons.
[21:25] – You Are Not Behind
Tanner shares one of the most powerful truths from his book.
[23:00] – A Biblical Perspective on Waiting and Hope
The story of Simeon and what it teaches us about trusting God’s promises.
[27:30] – Finding Joy in Simple Rhythms
How slowing down—even in small ways—can bring peace and joy to everyday life.
Favorite Quotes from Tanner
“Life is not a race and you are not behind.”
“Don’t just get through it—go through it. Feel it, wrestle with it, and trust that God is with you in it.”
A Gentle Reminder for Today
Friend, if you’re in a season that feels uncertain or heavy, you’re not alone—and you’re not forgotten. God is present in your story, even now. What feels like a delay may actually be a deeper work of grace unfolding.
You don’t have to rush ahead.
You can slow down, take a breath, and trust that He is leading you—step by step.
Connect with Tanner Olson
- Instagram: @tannerolson
- Books: Getting Through What You’re Going Through, Walk a Little Slower, Continue, and more
- Ministry: Written to Speak
Connect with Rachael Adams
- Website: rachaelkadams.com
- Instagram: @rachaeladamsauthor
- Podcast: The Love Offering Podcast
- Books: Everyday Prayers for Love and A Little Goes a Long Way
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