When water began dripping through my downstairs bathroom light fixture on a Sunday morning, I didn’t realize God was about to use a plumbing disaster to expose something deeper—my own anger. Parenting has a way of revealing what’s hidden beneath the surface, and sometimes our attempts to manage behavior are really attempts to manage shame. In this honest reflection on motherhood, discipline, and the gospel, Janel Breitenstein explores the difference between parenting through shame and parenting through grace-filled conviction—and why true heart change always begins with truth.



