How did we ever get it into our heads that the journey to the life we really want would be easy? The universe reminds us that life is born out of death. There is a rhythmic dying hidden in each season: the loss of the safety of the womb through the risk of birth, the laying down of one’s independence and autonomy for the good union of marriage, the seeds that die for vegetables and flowers to grow, and the peach blossoms that wither and fall to the ground so bubble hot peach crisp can crown a summer supper. Death is the door to life.



